What is a BDSM dungeon? What the hell is this LDH place all
about?
It could be you have stumbled onto this web site
by accident. Maybe you have discovered that your partner has an interest in this
kind of thing and you want to find out more about it. Perhaps you have heard talk about the
book "Fifty
Shades of Grey" or heard
Rhianna singing about
fetish things, like
"chains
and whips that excite her", and it is all just a total puzzle to you as to what
all this kinky stuff is
all about.
Well
first off BDSM sex is only as good as your feelings for the person you are
playing with... but in times of need those feelings can be completely
fabricated. It's called pretending and needy (or greedy) folk can do it with a Professional
Mistress or Master but
satisfaction is not necessarily guaranteed in any situation.
BDSM
is not every bodies cup of tea but perhaps you will be surprised how little
sugar you will need to make it a tasty brew. Mixing the metaphors further
I would say
BDSM
is akin to adventure sports and you need to actually try it to
find out what the thrill is all about... rather like sky diving you can't
experience the thrill properly through reading or just thinking about it. Many
deny their true natures and
live a lifetime never daring to take that plunge and enact their fantasies with
a willing partner.
Are you are a still a bit confused?
Well as you explore the wonderful
world of
BDSM
the chances are you will become more so. It's
a world of fantasy and dreams and therefore rationality does not really enter
into it. It's more about feelings than understanding. Exciting feelings, sexual
feelings, good feelings and sharing them with people you trust
and care about in a safe and inspiring environment.
Those feelings are in the "bones" for some... part of their
identity and those feelings have always been there and always will be. For others the feelings can be
developed... if they so desire it.
First of all a BDSM
Dungeon is all about pleasure, it's not about pain
(although some people get pleasure from pain and they are known as
Masochists). Some people get pleasure from making
others suffer under their domination and they are known as
Sadists
The Rules
The Pleasure Rule is Dungeon Rule Number
One;
BDSM
is all about
pleasure.
Dungeon Rule Number Two; A BDSM dungeon is a place for
consenting adults.
Dungeon Rule Number Three; There are no more rules... just the
ones you make up for yourselves (or the ones set by the Dungeon Keeper and they
only apply to his/her dungeon).
Play Time
When we were children we (well most of us) were easily able to
enter a world of make believe where anything was possible. Those make believe
games might have involved dressing up in outlandish costumes or improvising with
cardboard boxes, bits of old junk or purpose built toys to create an imaginary
world where in anything we wanted to happen could.
As we grow older, some of us, retain the ability to pretend play like that
but as adults we are able to weave in sexual elements as well and so those games
become even more thrilling and pleasurable.
A BDSM dungeon should not be damp, or cold or uncomfortable, but it may
appear that way in a fantasy. It is a venue which is designed for adults to
share and enjoy their sexual power play with other adults (as couples or
groups). It has the atmosphere, security,
equipment and toys that enable people to explore their BDSM fantasies with each
other safely. Rather like a theatre it should have all the props, all the scenery, all the
spaces and atmosphere for the players to act out the
scenes and
roles
required in their personal power play.
A good dungeon (like LDH) has luxury and comfort in equal measure to
opportunities for pain
and
bondage. It
will be abundantly resourced for
punishment,
reward,
worship and
sensuality. A dungeon can exist
just in the imagination or, perhaps, in the
heart of an ancient woodland. It is the product of desire and obsession. It can
be created where ever the
magic is required.
The fantasy creates the Dungeon (or the desire
for it). Then the Dungeon will fuel the desire, imagination and resulting
fantasy still further.
I did say you might remain confused...
Confused or not London Dungeon Hire will assist
you to resolve your fantasies (and confusion) but only if you
hire! Not
ready to hire but want to find out more? Why not visit LDH for an extended
tour? |